I'm feeling quite sick today and didn't feel inspired to come up with a particularly fabulous outfit. Instead, I thought I'd do a different sort of post reflecting on a trip I took last summer.
So in case you did not know, I am half Filipino.
My mom occasionally goes back to visit family and if I'm lucky, I'm able to tag along. I've gone to the Philippines four times now, and this last trip was one of the best!
First, know this. We do not stay in a hotel like tourists. Since so much of our family is there, we just stay with my Auntie Hilda who has an extra bedroom.
I got to experience and live like the average Filipino does for two months. And let me tell you what I learned.
We Americans are incredibly spoiled.
The Philippines is a third world country, so while rich in beauty, most of it's people live in poverty.
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| A boy hunting for tiny fish called kaling in a river. |
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| This is how they transport their vegetables to the market. Haha, pretty nifty huh? The mountains are so rugged, this is the easiest way to send their chaote to the market. |
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| My little cousin John Art was more brave than me. Here we are looking down on the city of La Trinidad. |
I don't know why it didn't hit me until this last trip, but I'm so glad it opened my eyes!
Instead of John Deere tractors, I saw wooden plows pulled by caribous. Instead of flashy shirts and mini skirts, I saw worn out, second-hand clothes. And instead of a complaining attitude, I saw smiles and genuine happiness.
I know this doesn't apply to every Filipino there, but many live incredibly simple lives. And get this. They are happy.
| I got to hang out with my penpal Roan at her school for a day! Now that was fun :) |
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| My adorable younger cousins, from left to right: Junior and John Art |
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| Haha, so Junior doesn't look very happy in this one. The older boy is my dear cousin, Makoy, and to the right, my other cousin, Mylene. |
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| Once again, the smiliest and sweetest cousin, John Art. That boy is just too adorable. He liked to walk with me whenever I went out and I called him my little bodyguard. |
So often I find myself thinking how unfair it is that so-and-so has their own car, or how others in my school are so lucky to have a bottomless credit card.
But then I stop and think back to Baguio and the lessons I learned there, and I realize what a spoiled brat I am. Harsh words, but it's true. I always want something more than what I have, most of which is totally unnecessary.
However, I am slowly learning to appreciate what I do have and make the best of it. My trip to the Philippines has definitely affected my perspective for the better!
I cannot wait to visit again!
So, to end this post, here are some more pictures I took while I was there. Hope you enjoyed this one.
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| Mmmm, I absolutely loved eating all the Filipino foods available! Babinka is one of my favorite, and they have so many different kinds. |
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| The traditional Igorot clothing they used to wear. Igorots are a tribe in the mountain province that my mom is a part of. So that makes me an Igorot too! |
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| Walking around the market |
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| I welcome you to the bathroom I had to endure with for two months. On more than one occasion did a cockroach sneak up on me while I was in here too. Horrible memories... |
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PS: Thank you to all my new followers! I'm so grateful for the growing feedback on my blog. You all make it so much more fun blogging!
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23 comments:
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful piece of your heritage with us. It is such a beautiful place and you're right we don't even begin to know how lucky we have it here in the US.
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That sounds like such an amazing experience! I would love to visit one day. Hope you feel better soon!
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nice place! thank you for sharing :)
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Wow.... so enlightening. Really I hate to think what other people are going through in the world, because it makes me sad, but its also a wonderful reminder to see that they are happy. lovely post :) and thank you so much too :)
these photo are amazing!
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These photos are brilliant.. And you are so right. We are so caught up in the comforts of our lives that we fail to realize what the rest of the world is going through. Very touching post!
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so youve been here in philippines? thats nice... :) i hoped you enjoyed it.. not manila of course, manila is too crowded... but the beaches and islands... i hoped you like that.. great blog hon
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What a great place to be able to visit!
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Thanks so much for sharing this. It must be such a meaningful and memorable experience for you. And you delivered how you felt and what it was like so well with your words. It really does make you realise what you have is a lot more than other people in the world, and you do learn to appreciate them a bit more.
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the scenary is SO pretty
Wow, it looks like a beautiful country, and puts so much into perspective. We're so lucky to have the basic things we take for granted: paved roads, roomy showers, comfortable cars, etc. Loved reading about your experiences. So eye-opening!
Wow! what a beautiful photos!
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Great photos :)
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New to your page :) , Lots of love from india :)
Love this post! It's always to great to get out of your comfort zone and explore the world and appreciate all the little things. <3
Very nice pics!
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love the pic with the warriors
Fabulous pictures! Looks like such fun! Those stairs look exhausting though! Haha.
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Wow!! This post is so amazing!!! It looks like a very eye opening experience. A friend of mine from high did a KickStart campaign a couple of months ago to raise money to send him and his sister to The Philippines in order to see their grandmother one last time, and it turned out to be a really nice success. Maybe next time you are wanting to go back, you can do that and have people you know contribute to the dream :)
Hope I could see you here on your next trip! :) Would love to meet you personally! :)
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Amazing photos! Thank you soo much for sharing! It's great to see photos from a first hand experience! :)
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Yah Pinoy bathrooms and the "tabo" and pail thingy are common shockers for foreigners! Very nice post! I was glad to came about this lovely blog of yours. Mabuhay ang mga Pinay (even though you're just half)! :)
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